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Forgiving Someone Who Will Never Change

Posted by Panache Desai | Wednesday, July 27, 2016 | : 17

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Is it possible to forgive someone who will never change?

Simply by wanting someone to change, you’re perpetuating your own experience of suffering. Life isn’t about changing the people around you… It’s about loving yourself. The more you love yourself, the less you’re focused on the people around you and their behaviors.

How do you begin to love yourself so that you can forgive someone who will never be different and will…

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How To Forgive Yourself

Posted by Panache Desai | Wednesday, July 20, 2016 | : 5

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Many of you believe you've done things that may be deemed unforgivable. Maybe you hurt someone or you stood by and allowed something to occur that caused harm...

You can't hold yourself hostage for the love and the awareness that you didn't have at the time of the incident. You must evaluate yourself based on the experiences that you've had up until this point instead of based on who you were when the…

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How To Forgive And Let Go

Posted by Panache Desai | Wednesday, July 13, 2016 | : 4

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Are you still carrying within you the burdens of the past? Things that have happened to you that you simply just can't forgive or move on from?

As much as you may be justified in holding onto these things… In actuality, it's just further keeping you trapped in limitation. As long as you're holding onto the slights or the traumas of the past, you can't be available for the love and the blessings…

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How To Make Great Choices For Yourself Rather Than Just Jumping To Fill A Void

Posted by Panache Desai | Wednesday, July 06, 2016 | : 3

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After a divorce or a breakup of a relationship, there’s typically a tendency to want to fill that void with something new. More often than not, this is an attempt to validate yourself as being a good person who is lovable and desirable.

However, what I’ve discovered is that reaching outside of you for somebody else isn’t the answer.

That may bring a certain level of temporary satisfaction, but it…

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How To Find the Strength to Support Your Kids As They Struggle With Divorce

Posted by Panache Desai | Wednesday, June 29, 2016 | : 2

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Our children are often seen as the casualties of divorce… They are so evolved and empathic—that in some ways they are already aware of the relationship dynamics that you and your spouse are only just discovering.

Honesty and transparency are the necessary antidote to help them move into a place of understanding and awareness around how life is going to look like now in your household.

Sometimes it’s the hardest decisions of all…

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How To Rediscover Yourself After Divorce

Posted by Panache Desai | Tuesday, June 21, 2016 | : 3

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After divorce, how can one rediscover themselves and begin to once again open up to the possibility of love?

Divorce happens because we’ve lost sight of who we are. It’s important post-divorce to date yourself. Take the time to really know who you are.

  1. Fill out a dating profile.
  2. Identify what it is that brings you joy.
  3. Cultivate the ability to be with yourself.
  4. Forge a strong foundation…

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How To Know When Divorce Is The Right Decision

Posted by Panache | Tuesday, June 14, 2016 | : 3

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Should you get a divorce? You’re faced with this heart wrenching choice of either moving on from a relationship that you’ve known for years or staying and having the courage to begin to explore everything you need to within you, to begin to take your relationship to a brand new expression.

The answer needs your active participation and inquiry because at the deepest level you know the answer to the question.

When…

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The Whisper of Something Great

Posted by Panache | Thursday, December 31, 2015 | : 3

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Panache’s New Year’s Wish for You

We are on the cusp of a New Year and people are scrambling to make sense of an awakening deep within. It’s an inner-calling to evolve. Suddenly you feel braver, more capable. As if you could take on the world. Sadly, most will misinterpret the quiet whisper that is stirring their heart believing they should reevaluate their life and create resolutions in an effort to…

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Putting the Sacred Back in the Holidays

Posted by Panache Desai | Tuesday, November 24, 2015 | : 2

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We’re days away from the kick-off to the 2015 holiday season. In our home, my wife’s grocery list was drafted and checked off weeks ago. The pantry’s contents were reorganized and all baking essentials that were old were tossed. Shopping was completed. Without consciously seeing it, Jan’s already begun to bump up against her need to create the perfect holiday, all stemming from the ghost of holidays past. The Thanksgivings and Christmases that fell…

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Faith

Posted by Panache Desai | Monday, October 05, 2015 | : 16

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In February our family expanded as we welcomed our second set of twins, Leonardo and Celeste. Our son arrived pink, chubby and healthy. Our daughter was born frail, blue and deathly ill. We learned of her congenital heart disease prenatally, but the severity of it could only be fully assessed upon her birth. It’s hard to believe that so much can go wrong not only with the development of the heart but the electrical system…

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